My first date as a high-class escort

Milou (26) shares her story

However well prepared you are for your first escort date, the nerves do not automatically disappear. Milou knows that better than anyone. Her very first booking was a dinner date at a five-star hotel in Amsterdam with an English-speaking gentleman. Years later, she can still laugh about stumbling over her English, the five-course dinner she could barely eat and her fear of accidentally introducing herself by her real name.

Milou at a glance: 26 years old · Looking back on her very first escort date · A dinner date in Amsterdam · Remembers the nerves, excitement and sense of adventure most of all.

A day I have never forgotten

Quite a few years have passed, but I still remember my first escort date as though it were yesterday. Thinking back on it still makes me laugh. I was so nervous! At the same time, it was one of the most exciting and adventurous days of my life.

My first booking was special from the start: a dinner date with an English-speaking man who held a senior position. The date took place at a five-star hotel in Amsterdam. Everything had been clearly discussed with me beforehand, but on the day itself, it suddenly felt very real.

Contact with the agency helped me feel safe

Before setting off, I checked in with the agency. They made sure I had all the information I needed and still felt comfortable with the booking. When I arrived at the hotel, I let them know I had arrived safely.

They also contacted me during the date to ask whether everything was going well. I only needed to send a brief reply. I really appreciated that. It reassured me that I was not on my own, without interrupting our evening.

Afterwards, I let them know that the date had finished and everything had gone well. The agency asked how I had found the experience and whether I had felt comfortable and safe.

Just do not accidentally say your real name

We had arranged to meet in his hotel room. As I walked through the hotel towards his room, a hundred thoughts raced through my mind. What would he be like? Would conversation come easily? And, above all: when I introduce myself, I must not accidentally say my real name!

When he opened the door, he introduced himself politely. Fortunately, I managed to use my working name. My first small victory of the evening.

He immediately seemed friendly and courteous. He was also handsome, well groomed and a true gentleman. The agency had told him that this was my very first date as a high-class escort. He understood why I was nervous and was patient and respectful with me.

He handed me the agreed payment neatly enclosed in an envelope. Of course, I knew this would happen, but it still felt like a significant moment. Suddenly, I thought: all right, my first date has really begun.

A five-course dinner, but I could barely eat

Almost immediately afterwards, we went downstairs for dinner in the hotel restaurant. A five-course meal awaited us. Normally, I love good food, but that evening, I was so nervous I could barely manage a mouthful. With every course, I thought: this looks delicious, but how am I ever going to eat it all? Fortunately, there is no need to finish every plate during such a long dinner.

My English, which is normally good, also became much less reliable because of my nerves. I knew the words, but at certain moments, my mind seemed to go blank. Looking back, I find that very funny. Fortunately, he did not mind at all. We understood each other perfectly well and could laugh about it together.

“Normally, I speak good English, but my nerves suddenly seemed to make my mind go blank.”

As dinner went on, my nerves gradually eased. We talked about all sorts of things, joked around and genuinely enjoyed each other’s company. I realised I did not have to keep thinking about what to say or how to behave. I could simply be myself more and more.

That may have been the biggest surprise. Beforehand, I had imagined all kinds of scenarios for how a first escort date might unfold. In the end, we were simply two people sitting across from each other, getting to know one another and enjoying an evening together.

Taking our time together

After dinner, we returned to his hotel room for another drink. By then, the atmosphere felt relaxed and comfortable. We took our time getting to know each other better, and there was absolutely no rush.

At one point, we began giving each other a massage. From there, greater intimacy developed naturally. I appreciated how gentle he was and how considerate he remained of the fact that this was my first experience as an escort. My boundaries were respected, and I felt completely at ease. That made an enormous difference to me.

Of course, I had wondered beforehand whether being intimate with someone I did not yet know would feel awkward. But after a leisurely dinner, plenty of conversation and laughter, a connection had already formed between us.

He wanted to extend the booking

The date went so well that he wanted to extend the booking. Naturally, I took that as a lovely compliment. Unfortunately, I already had plans after our agreed finishing time and could not stay longer.

For my first date, the booked time was also just right. I was pleased to finish on such a positive note.

A first date I will never forget

When people ask about my first experience as an escort, the five-star hotel, the elaborate dinner and the envelope are not the first things that come to mind. What I remember most is how terribly nervous I was beforehand and how relaxed I eventually felt with him.

He was friendly, courteous and respectful. He gave me time to settle into the situation and understood that everything was new to me. That is why I still look back on our date with such fondness.

My first date also taught me that working as a high-class escort involves much more than looking beautiful. You need to be able to listen, hold a conversation and help someone feel at ease, while staying aware of what feels comfortable for you.

Every date and every client is different, of course. But I could hardly have wished for a better gentleman for my first experience. What began as a day full of nerves became a warm, special memory that still makes me smile years later.